Today,I talked with a young men.He is 27.He want chat with me.so he was initiative.Actually I don't want to talk in that time.U know.very early in the morning.But after talked a while.I find he is a young man very interested in cougars.I am curious.So I asked him."why do u interested in cougars?"His answer shocked me....
He said that he had interested in cougars for many many years.when he was 12....12 years old boy.So young.So I think he is crazy.I even thought he was "oedipus complex".but I am wrong...
why young men love cougars?cougars are sexy,confident,mature,and so on.so many advantages for young girls.The most important reason is that,young men will never feel nervous.Because cougars know what they want.and can satisfied them.Cougars' experience can make this relationship goes better.
So I think more and more young men will love cougars.In this time I want to introduce every young man a place.www.cougarflirts.com If U want to find a sexy cougar before 2.14.Go this place and have a look.lots of cougars there.Maybe u couldn't find the Mrs right.U can also learn something from the cougars.for example tips.
2013年1月18日星期五
2013年1月14日星期一
The Cougar And Cub Dating Study
A few weeks ago, we published a study on the cost of dating younger women. This week, our study addresses the question of Cougar and Cub couplings. A “Cougar” is generally defined as an attractive woman over 30 years old, who is dating or likes to date younger men (affectionately referred to as “Cubs”).
In recently years, TV shows such as Cougar Town and reality series “The Cougar” have led to the Cougar-boom of the past few years. For me, the realization that Cougars is a younger man’s fantasy started when Finch ended up on top of Stifler’s mother, Jeanine, on the pool table in the American Pie movie. Cougars have been rocking hot since then. Hundreds of “cougar dating” websites have surfaced all over the place to cater to this dating niche made even more popular by the likes of Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher. So is “Cougar dating” a real trend, a viable relationship configuration, or is it just a myth fueled by teenage boys who lusted over their high school teachers only to eventually grow up?
To begin understanding the Cougar Phenomenon, we start by conducting a survey which was sent out to younger male members of our websites (WhatsYourPrice.com, SeekingArrangement.com and SeekingMillionaire.com) who have shown an affinity to or preference for dating older women. The results may or may not surprise you:
Over 89% of the younger men surveyed said they like Cougars because Cougars are more sexually experienced. 72% like dating Cougars because they probably don’t have to pay for the date. 58% said they prefer Cougars because Cougars don’t come with the same commitment expectations that younger women have. 38% said they love older women because Cougars know what they want. But the most revealing answer of whether Cougar-Cub relationships are headed for trouble may be in the final question: Do you prefer to date Cougars because you do not find younger women attractive? Only 9% answered yes to this question.
To further understand why older women and younger men get together, and whether their relationships will last, we turn to the numbers on cougarflrts.com.
The following is the Cougar value graph and the Cub value graph, which represents the average price of first date offers received by attractive women and attractive men based on their age:
From the chart above, we see that the perceived value of an attractive woman peaks when she reaches 25 years old, and gradually diminishes as she ages. The perceived value of an attractive man however, starts at a much lower price when he is young, peaking only when he reaches the age of 34. It appears from the value curve above that at least some stereotypes we often hear do hold some truth. For example, that female models earn the most before they turn 30. Or that men become more attractive as they age.
But no matter what some of you may read from the value curves above, it has proved a useful tool for predicting when Cougar-Cub couples get together, and when they are likely to break up. The value curves also provide clues of what types of Cougar-Cub relationships stand the best chance of surviving in the long run.
Let us take the Demi Moore – Ashton Kutcher union as an example. Demi and Ashton started dating back in 2003 when she was 40 and he was 25. The green circle on the value graphs show the value at their respective age back then. Both were valued at approximately $70. This likely means both valued each other equally, which may provide a simplistic (but scientific) explanation for why the two started dating back then. Over time, as both age, Ashton’s value has been on the rise while Demi’s have declined. Fast forward to 2011, the orange circles on the curves show Ashton’s value at approximately $158, and Demi’s value at $56, a $101 difference in Ashton’s favor. This may explain the recent rumors we read about Ashton cheating on Demi, and that their relationship may soon be over. It is also probably a coincidence that Ashton’s new mistress, Sara Leal, who is 23 years old has a value that is more closely aligned to his.
A Complex Story
The value gap between a Cougar and a Cub only explains one part of a complex story. There are of course many other reasons why Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore are headed for a breakup today. First, Ashton’s net worth has grown much more than Demi’s over the past eight years. Second, Ashton’s testosterone production is nearing its biological peak according to his age, while their relationship is nearing the seven year itch point. Finally, Ashton is near the biological clock ticking age where he is ready to start a family of his own, and unfortunately Demi is way past her baby producing phase of her life.
So, is there hope for the Cougar – Cub relationship? Of course there’s hope! In fact, there have been examples of many successful Cougar – Cub unions that have passed the test of time.
The value curves above do provide some important clues and guidance. Cougar – Cub relationships that stand the best chance of survival are those that form between an older woman and a younger man who is over the age of 35 — i.e., when the value of both are in the decline and the value gap remains a constant over time.
The fact remains that the value curves only measure the superficial methods by which us humans evaluate each other. Once two people get to know each other at a deeper level, other more influential factors come to play: true love, genuine care, real understanding, conscious commitment, and of course rational choice.
2013年1月10日星期四
Kate Middleton Baby Will Be Called “Princess” If Female
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The decision was made official on December 31, but Queen Elizabeth publicly announced it on Wednesday, Kate Middleton's 31st birthday. The exact language was published in theLondon Gazette:
"The Queen has been pleased by Letters Patent under the Great Seal of the Realm dated 31 December 2012 to declare that all the children of the eldest son of the Prince of Wales should have and enjoy the style, title and attribute of royal highness with the titular dignity of Prince or Princess prefixed to their Christian names or with such other titles of honour."
Royal baby mania begins with questions on name, title, and succession
Without the new decree, a boy would have been called a Prince, but a girl would have been titled "Lady," as she would not have been first in line to succeed to the throne.
The Queen's formal declaration is in line with Parliament's plan to make an amendment that would allow for any royal baby, no matter its gender, to become the heir to the throne of England. In other words, the Queen's actions signal that she supports the idea that a female child born first would succeed to the throne.
"By issuing a formal decree to ensure the title of prince and princess to all the future children of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, the Queen showed her support for reforms to gender equality," Victoria Arbiter, ABC News Royal Contributor, told Yahoo! Shine. "She also managed to eliminate at least one excuse for any sibling rivalry."
The Queen, with younger sister Margaret, was known as Princess Elizabeth since her father had no male children …This decision overturns a decree made by Queen Elizabeth's grandfather George V in 1917, which declared the eldest son of the Prince of Wales to be first in line of succession.Though Parliament has not officially passed the amendment yet, it is largely supported by most of the government, the royal family, and the public.
"There's no question the royal family has needed to modernize in terms of gender equality, and history shows that women have done very well in the top job so these changes are somewhat overdue," says Arbiter. "There's certainly no one in the UK who could argue that this is not a very positive step forward."
Official titles are sometimes confusing to Americans, who thought Kate Middleton would receive the title of Princess when she married Prince William in 2011. Instead, the Queen opted to give them both new titles, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge.
Kate Middleton celebrated her 31st birthday at home with Prince William on Wednesday. Pregnant with the couple's first child, she's still recovering from an ugly bout of extreme morning sickness that landed her in the hospital for several days in December.
The recent declaration has many wondering if perhaps the royal family is already aware that the baby on the way is in fact, a girl.
2013年1月9日星期三
Friends and family have cautioned me repeatedly that these young men only want to take advantage of me, particularly financially. This is amusing, as my financial assets are non-existent. In fact, these men all have well-paying jobs and spend their money on me. The way I see it, I am benefiting from these liaisons as much as, or more than, the men. They stay in touch over time, even if we don’t continue a dating relationship.
Your thoughts? (And why do you think young men are attracted to older women?)
A: Here’s what I advise: continue to enjoy your life without regard to the frowns of friends, family, or society. What do they know? It sounds like you are taking precautions and ensuring that you won’t be a victim. So go forth without guilt or worry.
I should note that I know several women in their 50s who have been bamboozled in recent months by Facebook con artists pretending to be enamored with them. Their schemes are sophisticated and convincing. Just be aware, and use your good head at all times.
Why are younger men attracted to older women? That’s an easy one: BECAUSE WE’RE BETTER (and a few young bloods out there have figured it out).
Q: How long is too long to leave up outside Christmas decor? Seriously, is there a courtesy deadline for the neighbors? Are there exemptions if say you have an all-encompassing theme that goes beyond Christmas? There must be rules about this.
A: This is America, and the last thing we need is more rules, especially about stuff that doesn’t matter. Leave your décor up until doomsday if you’d like. Seriously, I’m a libertarian when it comes to things such as these. I say live free or die defending your right to keep Rudolph’s nose lit all year long!
Q: A big pet peeve of mine is when folks are rude to people in the food service industry. I’m appalled at the bad behavior I observe in restaurants. What can be done?
A: We begin by modeling good behavior ourselves and by practicing the Golden Rule in interactions with everyone. It’s been said that the true measure of a person is how she treats someone who can do her absolutely no good. You already know that, but unfortunately, some people don’t see it that way.
There are many reasons that their thinking is clouded, but the most common ones are these: they feel powerless in life, so they make the power plays in these kinds of dealings; they believe waitresses and the like are beneath them, a notion that makes me laugh out loud to the point of snorting; or they bring in their own baggage and unload it there.
When I witness an odious patron, I leave a super-generous tip and go out of my way to be nice to the server. It’s also imperative to let the perpetrator know that such behavior is unacceptable. So I shoot ‘em my laser death glare.
I was a waitress. It was hard and taxing work. I remember living on the edge, wondering if I could save up enough tip money to return to college before I head butted a customer.
The bottom line: all of us, whether we’re the ones serving or receiving the service, must never forget that everyone is struggling with something — and that kindness is a necessary addition to everything.
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Beyonce’s GQ Cover Leaks: Is This Her Sexiest Magazine Shoot Ever?
Be February issyonce graces the cover of theue ofGQ – and a leaked photo that hit the Web on Wednesday caused such a stir that the magazine released the official image.
The Real Version of the Cover Everyone Is Talking About
The 31-year-old singer/actress – who gave birth to her daughter Blue Ivy a year ago – shows major skin in the men’s mag, posing in a cut-off football shirt and animal-print panties. Proving she is still bootylicious, she struck a sultry pose as well, holding her hair up while casting a seductive look.
Though Jay-Z’s wife has been famous since her Destiny’s Child days, this could possibly be her sexiest magazine cover ever. The megastar has stripped down for magazines on other occasions, but perhaps none more revealing than this, which is promoting her much-touted Super Bowl performance in February. Some other memorable covers featuring the “Dreamgirls” star include her wearing a cleavage-exposing wet tuxedo shirt on the cover of Vibe, appearing in a pink string bikini with see-thru gym shorts on the British FHM, donning a frayed ab-exposing top on the Brazilian Nova, and dressing in frilly lingerie on the Spanish DTLux.
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